Dear Ophelia

Dear Ophelia,

It sounds like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, aren't you sweetie? You've come to the right girl, I've helped many of my friends through similar situations and look forward to bringing you mental peace in your hardships. Before we get sentimental and sweet let's get our facts straight first, shall we ? My first and foremost question is, do you really think it's worth it? If you're to choose the prince that is. What has he done to show that he really loves you and that this whole thing isn't a scheme for personal gain? You need to weigh out the pros and cons and consider your options. You're basically choosing between your family, which is forever if i might add, and the maybe not so love of your life. Are you really willing to give up a blood bond for someone who can so easily change their thoughts and opinions towards you? I've always felt that fathers and brothers should have a small dislike towards their sister/daughters lovers, that being said they should also approve of them at the same time. Whether you like their opinion or not, they know a lot more about your man than you may think they do. Don't make your decision solely on what your dad and big brother say, but also don't make your decision without giving consideration and consent to what they think and feel about the prince. Love is something that takes time but also something you have a whole lifetime to find. Don't rush into anything. Don't forget to be realistic, we're talking about a prince after all. You can either become his queen or his concubine and sadly, the decision is not yours. Once you become the prince's lover, you can have no other chance at finding love. Make sure you think this over thoroughly and consider every possibility. This decision will determine your future. Choose wisely.